Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly.
Here we will look at how to find it and give your partner immense pleasure once you do!
Where is the G Spot?
The G-Spot is the area to target for maximum sexual arousal.
You will be able to help give added pleasure and a mind blowing climax to your partner if you can locate and stimulate it.
The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a women’s cervix.
The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5” to 3” inside the vagina.
This area inside the vagina has a different texture; it’s ridged, not smooth like the rest of the vagina, and when aroused has a spongy feel.
The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes even women have a hard time finding it and some don’t even believe it exists, but it does.
All you need to do is to locate it and arouse it and with a little trial and error between you and your partner you can.
Locating the G Spot
To explore and find the G spot, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her buttocks for comfort.
Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be between 1.5 – 3” inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot.
Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it's surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell the same way a penis does.
Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place and you she will know, as you will see the reaction when you hit it!
G Spot Technique
When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls.
It generally feels best for her if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls and use a steady rotational rhythm.
Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot.
Finding a rhythm is what you are looking for here; keep moving the fingers in and out and around constantly hitting the G Spot.
You can give your partner even more pleasure by licking her clitoris and stimulating her G-Spot at the same time, to give her an amazing climax.
Stimulating the G Spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three components:
1.Time: Needs to be taken to work your partner up
2.Gentle attention: Listen to your partner and find out what gives her pleasure.
3.Tapping: Keep constantly tapping the G-spot while you are moving your fingers.
Penis stimulation
Penises curve and the ones that curve upwards are most likely to hit the G territory. However if your penis curves to the left or the right, all is not lost,There are options!
If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, you can position yourself in such a way that your penis hits the spot i.e you need to be in a position where your penis points north.
For example, if your penis curves to the side. You lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot.
If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way, you will see her buttocks and then move to hit the G spot.
Other methods of stimulation
There are a number of adult toys such as vibrators etc that are designed to hit and stimulate the G Spot and the huge variety out there means there is one for every women.
Finally…
The G Spot is there in women all you have to do is find it and stimulate it to give your partner huge pleasure.
There is a lot of mystique related to the spot but to find the G spot and give your partner pleasure is really all about communication.
She will be able to guide you, all you need to do is follow her instructions have patience and find out what’s right for her.
If you do, you will add another dimension to your relationship and your partner will be very grateful for your effort!
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Trying to find her G spot location is as much about trust as it is about female anatomy. Don’t forget that to find her G spot, she will be literally opening herself up to you so it’s important that this takes place at a time in your relationship when you both really trust each other.
Each relationship is different so you would have to gauge if the task of finding her G spot location should be discussed before-hand or not. For some couples, it should be discussed so that she’s not taken by surprise. For others, the way you broach the topic is the key. For instance, you can simply tease her during the day about ensuring that tonight is a night she won’t forget… if she wants it to be that way. Whatever approach you take, keep in mind to respect her wishes.
If you thought you can do this without any pre-discussions, and you find out she’s not into it, then leave it be. She must be comfortable with the idea or finding her G spot location will be even harder.
Cleanliness is very important. Before the big night, make sure you’ve cleaned your hands well and cut your nails. You don’t want to scratch her do you?
Step2
It’s important that she’s very wet before you try and find her G spot location. As such, you need to engage in some heavy foreplay to ensure that she’s wet and wanting. When this is achieved, ask her to lie down on her back and prop her buttocks with some pillows so that part of her is a bit elevated for easier access.
Step3
Draw her knees up and put her at ease by engaging in oral sex first. When she’s good and ready, you can then try to insert your finder into her. Make sure your palm is facing up so that when you curve your finger, it’s not facing her vaginal wall.
Step4
Find an area that feels like the roof of your mouth. It should be a bit spongy, rough and ridged. Although the exact G spot location is not the same for all women, it should be about 1.5 to 3 inches within her vaginal wall.
Step5
Once you find the G spot, you can pretty much treat it like her ****oris and stimulate it as such. For added sexual delirium, you can use your thumb to stimulate her ****oris or even perform oral sex on her while your finder continues its sexual assault on her G spot.
Berhasil atau tidaknya dua insan mencapai orgasme saat bercinta, diawali dari andal atau tidaknya pasangan memainkan perannya. Jika tidak, hanya seks dangkal yang didapatnya. Di mana titik-titik mau itu ?
G-spot adalah satu atau beberapa titik sensitif yang masih menjadi misteri bagi sebagian besar pria. Reaksi yang ditimbulkan biasanya cukup membuat pria ingin menemukan kembali sumber kenikmatan tersebut.
Huruf G dalam G-spot berasal dari nama seorang dokter. Ernst Grafenberg yang menemukannya pada 1950-an. Menurut sang dokter, G-spot pada tubuh wanita terletak di dalam Miss Ginie di dinding bagian atasnya. Daerah itu membengkak dan biasanya akan menghasilkan respon menyenangkan, sehingga pada sebagian wanita menyebabkan orgasme.
Reaksi terhadap stimulasi G-spot, menurut Grafenberg, seperti yang ditulis Joel D. Block, Ph.D, pada buku Secrets of Better Sex, sangat bervariasi. Ada sebagian wanita sangat sensitif, terlalu sensitif, atau tidak sensitif sama sekali. Jadi, sebaiknya wanitalah yang menyentuh dan memberitahu bagian sensitifnya itu.
Sebelum Anda menggali dan mulai mencari-cari G-spot, ingat bahwa otak Anda dan pasangan harus membuat pikiran dipenuhi dengan cinta dan kasih pusat dari orgasme. Jika Anda mampu membiarkan pikiran bebas tanpa merasa terbebani, dipastikan dia mencapai kesenangan yang sangat diharapkan.
Keingintahuan adalah sifat alamiah setiap insan. Begitu pula dalam urusan seks. Hampir semua pria penasaran, sebenarnya di titik mana saja sih.. wanita bisa `crazy` jika disentuh ? Nah, sebelum Anda melakukan petualangan mencari zona erotik wanita, pastikan Anda berdua dalam kondisi nyaman, bersih dan penuh kasih.
Berikut beberapa titik yang dapat membuat wanita menjadi siap bertarung saat dirinya sedang "mogok".
1. Paha Jangan pernah berlaku kasar saat menyentuh bagian yang dipenuhi urat saraf ini. Biarkan jemari Anda menari dengan lembut di atas kulit yang penuh pesona.
2. Belakang lutut Tak bisa dimungkiri jika area belakang lutut ini menjadi bagian arena penuh "penyerahan" diri wanita. Sebab, di lokasi ini, semua urat saraf berakhir di belakang lutut.
3. Bokong Sampaikan sinyal pesan Anda saat ingin bercinta dengan pasangan. Alamatkan tangan Anda pada wilayah ini dan pastikan si dia merasakan kesenangannya. Untuk Anda ketahui, area yang paling sensitif adalah di ujung bawah tulang belakang dan bagian lipatan pertemuan antara paha dan pantat. Lakukan berbagai variasi gerakan untuk memberi sensasi yang berbeda.
4. Leher Sekedar meniupkan udara di sekitar leher membuat istri Anda terbuai. Apalagi jika tangan atau bibir Anda "bermain", lenguhan napasnya akan terdengar. Genggam lembut lehernya dengan satu tangan dan tangan lainnya membelainya. Perlakuan seperti ini akan membuat dia menyerah pasrah.
5. Telinga Bisikkan kata-kata romantis di telinga pasangan Anda. Katakan jika hasrat Anda ingin bermesraan dengannya. Lakukanlah ciuman seerotis mungkin hingga ke punggung istri Anda. Lepaskan dan lihat bila tubuh si dia bergerak erotis.
6. Kaki Seharian berjalan membuat kaki meminta perhatian untuk dipijat. Memanjakan seputar kaki, mulai dari telapak, jari-jari, hingga tumit, cara baik foreplay dengan pasangan.
7 Payudara Inilah yang pertama diingat pria dari tubuh seorang wanita. Selain bentuknya indah, lokasi ini sangat peka pada rangsangan. Wujudnya pun membuat Anda bebas melakukan sentuhan bentuk apa pun. Temukan, apakah pasangan Anda lebih suka Anda melakukannya dengan lembut atau sedikit kasar.
8. Pergelangan tangan Sepertinya aneh jika ini salah satu titik sensitif wanita. Tapi mungkin itu sebabnya para ahli mode menyarankan agar wanita membubuhkan parfum di sekitar pergelangan tangannya. Sebab, ada nadi yang sensitif di situ. Dia pasti akan terkesan kalau areal ini Anda jelajahi.
9. Genitalia Tempat satu ini tak perlu diperdebatkan lagi. Di areal inilah perasaan seksual wanita paling hebat jika distimulasi. Sekali ketemu tempatnya, sentuhan yang terlembut pun akan memberi sensasi yang menyenangkan dan tidak biasa. Kalaupun tidak ketemu, seperti biasa, mencarinya pun cukup menggairahkan kan ?
10. Bibir Inilah titik paling sensitif di tubuh wanita. Jangan sampai melewatkan bagian ini hanya karena Anda terlalu berhasrat melakukan eksplorasi di bagian lain. Sebab, bibir wanita bisa dimanipulasi sedemikian rupa sehinga dia akan merasa bergairah, terangsang, sekaligus disayang dalam waktu bersamaan. Ciuman bibir memberikan segalanya yang dibutuhkan wanita ketika melakukan hubungan. Teristimewa ketika berhubungan intim. Kalau Anda pernah mencapai puncak dalam keadaan Anda berciuman, rasakan sensasi kenikmatannya. Luar biasa....!
Titik rahasia di organ genital yang lazim disebut G-spot selalu mengundang penasaran. G-spot masih menjadi titik sensitif yang masih menjadi misteri bagi semua orang, pasalnya jika pasangan tak sengaja menemukan titik ini, rasanya wah...selangit! Tapi ya itu, susah ditelusuri kembali.
Huruf G dalam G-spot berasal dari Grafenberg (Dr Grafenberg), penemu spot (titik) pada wanita yang dapat membawa mereka mencapai kesenangan luar biasa. Menyamai orgasme bercinta.
Meski misterius, sebenarnya G-spot bisa ditelusuri, asal Anda tahu kiatnya. Nah, agar misteri ini terkuak dan menghadiahi Anda dengan kenikmatan bercinta tiada tara, berikut jurus-jurusnya selama bercinta dengan pasangan:
1. Rileks, tubuh yang bersih, napas berbau harum tentu sangat menunjang acara bercinta menjadi lebih menyenangkan. Pastikan Anda dan pasangan dalam kondisi bersih.
2. Minta pasangan untuk memijit, mencium dan menyentuh bagian sensitif seperti payudara dan organ genital Lakukan segalanya secara perlahan dan penuh perasaan. Nggak dikejar deadline, kan
3. Pastikan kuku jari si dia terpotong rapi, soalnya jari-jemari merupakan senjata penting untuk membantu menemukan si titik rahasia. Caranya: minta pasangan memasukan dua jarinya ke organ kewanitaan Anda dengan posisi jari berhadapan. Jika Anda merasakan kenikmatan, jangan ragu mengekspresikan perasaan dengan melenguh atau mendesah manja. Dia akan tahu dirinya telah berhasil menemukan titik rahasia kenikmatan Anda
4. Andalkan organ kejantanan si dia. Sudah pasi Anda akan lebih memilih organ yang sangat menggoda ini kan. Cara ampuh agar properti si dia menjangkau G-spot Anda adalah dengan menyiasati posisi bercinta. Jika properti si dia cenderung bengkok ke arah tertentu, bercintalah dengan posisi T. Minta dia berbaring horizontal, Anda sebaliknya.
Sebenarnya, dimana sih lokasi G-spot ini? Ternyata dia berada di pertengahan antara bukaan vagina dan serviks, persis di balik dinding depan vagina. Bayangkan di dalam properti Anda ada jam kecil persis menunjuk angka 12. Pada kebanyakan perempuan, G-spot berada di sekitar arah jarum jam 11 dan 1. Masih belum ketemu juga? Coba jelajahi G-spot tepat di belakang rambut vagina. Memang agak sulit menemukan sendiri, makanya minta tolong jari-jemari si dia yang panjang itu untuk menjangkaunya. Konon sih, jari lebih efektif menemukan area misterius ini karena relatif mudah menekan ketimbang penisnya.
Ingat, jangan ragu mengekspresikan diri selama bercinta dengan pasangan. Menutup-nutupinya hanya akan merugikan lho, kepuasan bercinta jadi tidak maksimal. Nggak mau rugi kan?
ROMA, RABU - Titik rahasia pada organ genital wanita yang disebut G spot selama ini kerap mengundang rasa penasaran. Bagian yang satu ini memang dikenal sebagai area paling sensitif dan dianggap sebagai salah satu kunci menuju kepuasan seksual kaum Hawa.
Sebagian wanita percaya bahwa dengan merangsang area misterius dalam vagina ini dapat menimbulkan orgasme yang luar biasa. Jika seorang pria secara tak sengaja menemukan G spot, orgasme yang hebat akan dapat mereka rasakan. Namun pada sesi berikutnya, belum tentu titik G spot akan mudah ditemui.
Sejauh ini, para ahli belum dapat menemukan sebuah metode ilmiah yang menentukan secara pasti letak titik paling sensitif ini. Bahkan eksistensi G spot sendiri menjadi perdebatan sejak 1980-an ketika istilah ini menggelinding sebagai wacana yang dapat menjelaskan mengapa beberapa wanita mampu mencapai orgasme lewat stimulasi vagina, sedangkan beberapa wanita lainnya tidak bisa.
Sajumlah ahli seks juga mengklaim bahwa istilah G spot justru telah menimbulkan problem kecemasan di antara para wanita yang belum dapat mencapai kepuasan seksual, termasuk pasangannya.
Walaupun masih kontroversi, penelitian tentang G spot tidak pernah berhenti. Seperti dimuat edisi terbaru majalah New Scientist, para ahli dari Universitas L´Aquila di Italia baru-baru ini mengklaim telah berhasil mendeteksi letak sebuah jaringan tebal pada vagina yang diduga sebagai G spot. Temuan ini juga dipublikasikan dalam jurnal Sexual Medicine.
Dengan melibatkan sebanyak 20 wanita, riset yang dipimpin oleh Dr Emmanuele Jannini berhasil menentukan posisi G spot dengan menggunakan metode ultrasound. Teknik ini dapat menentukan ukuran serta bentuk sebuah jaringan tebal di luar ¨dinding depan¨ vagina yang diduga merupakan letak G spot.
Pada sembilan wanita, yang selama riset dilaporkan mengalami orgasme melalui rangsangan vagina, jaringan yang letaknya antara vagina dan uretra - saluran tempat mengeluarkan urin - ini rata-rata lebih tebal dibandingkan 11 wanita lainnya yang tidak mampu mencapai orgasme melalui rangsangan serupa.
¨Untuk pertama kalinya, ada metode yang memungkinkan untuk menentukan dengan mudah, cepat dan murah bahwa wanita memiliki area G spot atau tidak,¨ ungkap Dr Jannini.
Walau pun Jannini yakin dengan temuannya. Dr Tim Spector dari St Thomas Hospital di London memiliki pendapat berbeda. Dalam New Scientist, Spector berargumen bahwa jaringan yang tebal ini mungkin saja sebenarnya hanya bagian dari klitoris, salah satu bagian genital wanita yang juga dikenal sangat sensitif.
Dugaan lain yang muncul adalah fenomena jaringan tebal ini lebih disebabkan oleh seringnya wanita mengalami orgasme. Dengan frekuensi orgasme yang berulang atau sering, mungkin akan menyebabkan pembentukan otot yang lebih baik pada jaringan tersebut.
Sementara itu Dr Petra Boynton, seorang psikolog seks dari Universitas College di London mengatakan bahwa seluruh industri saat ini telah berkembang di sekitar masalah G spot. Menurutnya, sungguh tidak berguna untuk mengatakan bahwa wanita yang tidak mampu menemukan area G spot mengalami ¨disfungsi¨.
¨Kita semua tentu berbeda. Beberapa wanita memiliki beberapa area tertentu dalam vagina yang sangat sensitif, dan beberapa lainnya tidak. Namun mereka tidak perlu menyebut area ini sebagai G spot. Jika semua wanita menghabiskan waktunya untuk mencemaskan apakah dirinya normal, punya G spot atau tidak, ia akan hanya terfokus pada satu area dan menghiraukan yang lain,¨ ungkap Boynton.
¨Ini akan meyakinkan kepada masyarakat bahwa hanya ada satu cara terbaik untuk melakukan seks, yang tentunya hal ini tidak tepat untuk dilakukan,¨ tegasnya.
When first laying eyes upon a woman that you find desirable it may seem an easy thing to simply introduce yourself and begin a normal conversation; however, for many, once presented with the actual pressure of conversation, it become extremely difficult to proceed with right words. Too often either the words you had meant to say seem to have completely left your thought process or the words you do manage to get out are not at all the select ones you had previously chosen. Because a first impression can be so important the pressure of this situation can cause severe, though perhaps temporary, speech impediments that cause the speaker to come off in a bad way.
Overcoming an initial meeting isn't the only situation where becoming a little tongue tied can be a real problem; often second or third meetings can be just as awkward as the first, in some cases more difficult because the pressure to impress seems to have increased.
How does one overcome these lapses or blunders in conversation with a woman that they hope to dazzle? Following a few basic steps both before and during the conversation could help transform your conversational skills from disastrous to spectacular:
Before you speak to the woman: Much of the problem in conversation begins before you even attempt to speak; often before an approach people will spend a few minutes focusing on how not to come across badly rather than being positive. This complete focus on your faults is usually an excellent way to bring them out, while increasing your level of stress at the same time. It is unnecessary to go over a check list of all of the improper or foolish things that you might say; focus instead on positive aspects of your personality and the situation.
What do you have in common?: Where you are: If you spot a woman who you would like to speak with it is most likely at a social event of some kind; immediately you do have those surroundings in common and usually build from there. Whether or not you agree on the music, food, drinks or atmosphere it can be an easy point of discussion to share without having to reveal anything to personal or embarrassing right up front.
Honesty, even if tweaked: Though many people feel that it is necessary to embellish about their preferences or tastes, as not to disagree with a person that they find interesting, many women can tell when you are agreeing just to be agreeable. It is better to thoughtfully disagree with her opinion on a topic and explain why you feel the way that you do then it is to flat out lie. Now when expressing your opinion about any topic with a woman you do not yet know well it is often a good idea to tread lightly, even about subjects you feel strongly about. This method of expressing politely allows for her to feel free in expressing her own opinion and shows her that rather than just blustering about topics for the sake of conversation, you actually think about what you're saying. This style of conversation can result in many different feelings from a woman; openness, confidence, honesty and a tiny bit of trust which can go a long way to gaining her respect. Even if you feel you have to be subtle in how you word your feelings as to not be offensive, this is a great deal more honest than agreeing with an opinion that you secretly do not.
Opening lines: Many people try to select opening lines that will get a positive response and with it, an invitation for more conversation. Hundreds of ridiculous opening lines have been circulating the bar scene for decades with little or no positive result. Even dating match sites online have had their share of common openers that make women roll their eyes and ignore their pursuers. Why then do people so often use these worn out phrases when approaching a pretty woman? Simply because they are nervous and are not sure of which string of words will allow them to remain at her table, stool or chat window and that is precisely why they so often do not work. Using an opening line that is neither creative nor original suggests immediately that not only are you not a very special person, but that you do not find the lady you have chosen to speak with interesting enough to dazzle her. One of the best opening lines and one of the most successful is simply the word hello; this can be followed by an introduction or an observation about your surroundings, but keeping it simple in the beginning is often a wonderful way to start up a conversation without coming on too strongly.
Relax: One of the most important things to remember before you approach any woman is that she might be just as nervous as you are; relax and keep it simple. Meeting people, especially in a romantic capacity, is difficult for most and there's no reason to allow yourself to become too nervous. Showing these signs of anxiety also send out a terrible message to the woman you are speaking with; essentially: I am not good enough for you but I'm going to try to speak with you anyway...please don't reject me? Tossing out characters flaws such as this one before you have even had chance to display your strengths is more often than not a great way to get rejected; so relax and take a breath, she is a person just like you and even if she isn't interested it shouldn't make you feel like less of a person; she doesn't know you.
Once you have successfully moved beyond those first few critical lines and she seems interested in more conversation you might want to keep just a few tips in mind to further her interest: Balance in conversation: If you completely dominate the conversation in likelihood she will become bored and dismissive; remember to allow her to share with you; on the other hand don't force her to do all the talking or she may find herself thinking later that she knows almost nothing about you. Too much conversation indicates that you are not very interested in her life and personality traits; while too little can send the message that you are not very interesting and probably not worth her time.
Confidence in your voice: Don't be shy when sharing about your life, obviously some topics are too personal too share right away but keeping the conversation on topics that people only use as ice breaks is no way to win her heart. Always keep in mind that confidant and egotistical are not the same thing, there are times to be humble and times to be strong, know these key times in the rhythm of the conversation and you will likely know great success.
Know what you want: Perhaps before you even set foot into the bar, club or chatroom a very important thing to know is what you are looking for in a woman. Don't be afraid to have goals in mind whether they be as simple as a one night stand or as far reaching as marriage and children; surprisingly enough there are probably thousands of women near you who share your goal and will appreciate your candor; don't make the common mistake of thinking you have to play a role in order to gain the interest a woman.
The short version: Keep calm; be confidant (without being an egomaniac); share with her, but don't take over the conversation and be yourself. Following these few simple steps may help better prepare you for you future conversations with those women who you thought you could never speak with and make them wonderful ones.
Female masturbation is a topic that is still largely taboo in our society, even though great strides have been made in feministic revolutions around the globe. The problem around female masturbation is that for the most part, women are left to figure out on their own how to achieve an orgasm and how to masturbate.
There are many different ways for a female to have an orgasm with female masturbation. Female masturbation is probably the best way for a woman to explore her sexuality; since she does it herself, alone, on her terms, she can pinpoint exactly what arouses her and what doesn't. Some women orgasm from clitoral stimulation during female masturbation, others from penetration into the vagina, and others do from fondling the G spot. If the idea of female masturbation seems a little daunting, dont worry. Female masturbation can be broken down into steps that will help you on your way to discovering your erotic preferences.
The first step when experimenting with female masturbation is to relax. Take a few deep breaths and a few minutes to gather your focus and put it all on you. It is difficult to reach climax if you are thinking about bills, groceries, and the kids, etc. The next step in female masturbation is to turn on your imagination. Whether you choose to think about a past sexual encounter or one that you get turned on at the thought of, put your vivid imagery skills to good use and start dreaming up erotic fantasies that will get your blood pumping. Once you are relaxed and have a fantasy or memory in mind, next you should begin running your fingers all over your body, exploring to see which areas respond to touch. Female masturbation is all about your clitoris, your nipples, your labia, and your perineum, for starters.
Now that you have found which body parts are sensitive to touch during female masturbation, use your fingers and experiment with a variety of touches: strokes, either in a back and forth or a circular motion, tickles, tugs, pulls, and little twists to your genitals are all great ways to heighten your sexual arousal during female masturbation. Remember to breathe throughout your female masturbation experience, releasing sexual tension. Rhythmically rock your pelvis like you would during intercourse as well. As you come closer to orgasm during female masturbation, add in stimulation to your nipples, clitoris, and vagina. Using a dildo or your fingers to thrust in and out of your vagina during female masturbation will help. As you begin to orgasm, keep the stimulation going, but ease up some as you reach the height of the orgasm. Don't stop altogether yet, though, because as the orgasm winds down, there are great little aftershocks to enjoy.
Although nothing is required for female masturbation except your fingers, using sex toys is a popular way to discover new sensations and add variety and fun to your female masturbation routine. Vibrators are great for beginners and advanced experts in female masturbation, because they can take some of the work out of stimulating the clitoris. So relax, find your hot spot, go to work, and play with some toys, because female masturbation is a great way to find yourself and lose yourself all at the same time.
Have you ever noticed how a group of women will start talk about sex after a few drinks?
Well if you haven't, then you should be aware...
If you pay close attention, you'll realize that women will always brag (or complain) about the sex partners in their lives.
So let this be a warning...
If you're not 'rocking her world' then your poor sexual techniques could be the next topic of conversation.
Scary thought, right?
The good news is there are a few simple ways to adapt your technique and become the best sex part she's ever had. Now the best place to start is the positions you choose to use during sex.
If you can identify a few things you might be doing wrong, and learn to make adjustments, you'll instantly become a great sexual partner. Here are 4 mistakes you could be making and how to fix them:
Sex Position Mistake #1- Going hard and fast
A lot of guys think going fast and hard during sex is the best way to please a woman. Because of the influence from pornography, some men think hard sex is the answer for a great sex session.
While sometimes fast-paced sex is fun, you should still take time and pay attention to her needs. So don't try to imitate your favorite porn movie. You'll only end up looking like an idiot. Sex Position Mistake #2- Using the same old position
Okay, we all have that trusted position we love.
But I have to tell you, if you're always doing the same thing over and over, things will become boring really quickly.
Instead of reverting to the same position, try varying things. Sex is the time for fun, so don't be afraid to experiment and try new things out.
Sex Position Mistake #3- Getting too fancy
While the Kama Sutra is a fun book to read, you shouldn't try to implement every position listed in this manual. In my opinion, this book isn't the best place to learn about lovemaking. Sex isn't about trying to bend you partner in every conceivable position.
To become a great lover, you don't have to try anything fancy or use 1001 sex positions. All you have to do is stick to the quality positions and focus on pleasing her.
Sex Position Mistake #4- Letting her do all the work
One of the best positions is when a woman is on top. While this is a great time to let her control the pacing and action, you shouldn't use it as opportunity to "take a break". Laying there like a dead fish will do nothing for her needs.
So if you want to maximize this position, you can stimulate her erogenous areas and run your hands over her body. She'll love being on top if you're working to please her at the same time.
Sex Position Mistake #5- Being afraid of controlling things
Many men view sex with nervousness and fear. So if you're one of those guys who approaches sex with trepidation, she'll be quickly turned-off.
For instance, if you're always worrying about her pleasure during sex or asking "is this good?", you'll be viewed as a weak person. And if you act like a wuss in the bedroom, you'll lose a lot of respect from her.
The one truth about life is men are attracted to women who act like women. Conversely women are strongly drawn to men who act like MEN. So if you're a weak person in the bedroom, she'll start to treat like this.
In order to become an incredible sex partner, you have to quickly identify and fix the mistakes you're making in the bedroom. When know how to please a woman, you'll become the guy the kind of man a woman will brag about.
As you may be well aware, stimulating the g-spot can help the woman to achieve orgasm. However, you may not know that it can even help woman to have multiple orgasms. As you may be well aware, stimulating the g-spot can help the woman to achieve orgasm. However, you may not know that it can even help woman to have multiple orgasms. In fact, a lot of women state that it is easy to have multiple orgasms by stimulating G-spot. They also say that it is even easier than having multiple orgasms by stimulating clitoris. As a results, it is always good for a man to learn to stimulate the G-spot of a woman so as to help her to achieve multiple orgasms. Besides, you may try to talk to her when you are stimulating her G-spot. You can tell her how sexy she is and you love her very much. As a matter of fact it is very important to talk to your partner on the bed. This will also enhance their orgasms. Another good thing of multiple orgasms by stimulating G-spot is that the woman will feel better in the next orgasm. You will certainly drive her to heaven with multiple orgasms since it will be more and more intense with each orgasm. Yet you have to remember that when orgasm is concerned, quality is always more important than quantity. Concentrating on the quanti ty will do no good to both you and your partner. There is no point to have multi orgasms which are of low quality. You should also be prepared it will take some time for your lady to have orgasm by stimulating the G-spot. Usually it will not happen till a few weeks after the first time you try to stimulate her G-spot. Do not be surprised if you find that your lady cannot reach orgasm when you try it at the first time. There are also sayings that the intense of orgasm will have positive correlation with the strength of the PC muscle. So it is always importantfor women to have exercises to train their PC muscle regularly. In order to make the stimulation more effective, you may try to use some sex toys. There are vibrators which are designed specially for G-spot stimulation. You can ask the staff in the sex toy shop for the products which can be used for this purpose. In short, it will be good to explore the G-spot orgasms. However, you should always discuss with your partner before the exploration process. As discussed, communication is always the most important thing on the bed!